MichMan wrote:Also, beans, if you are going to divide advice between those who have "failed" and those who have succeeded, find out if the people you are listening to have actually succeeded. If they have are operating a failing business, their advice may not be worth as much as you think.
The fact that people talk a good game and continue to pay the $50 IBO renewal fee does not necessarily mean that they are successful.
I would agree with this statement. That is why I referenced talking with and counseling with a GROWING upline.
If they are telling you that you can be financially free in a certain period of time, find out how long THEY have been in the business. Find out if they did it in that period of time. And find out how many people in their group have done what they are saying. Don't let them get away with putting you off saying that they heard of some guy on the West Coast who sponsored someone in Texas who just broke a high level pin in a short period of time.
This is just a way for people to make excuses for failure in this business. Beans, your personal success has ZERO to do with the success or lack thereof of the person who sponsors you. It is up to YOU to take responsibility to achieve success. Using other people's experiences is vital to helping you get there...no doubt...but it is up to you. Similarly, the success of people you bring into this business will have ZERO to do with your success or the lack thereof. Everyone who starts this business comes in with a certain amount of baggage and to dump that baggage takes time. Some folks take longer than others as well as different people have different definitions of what "success" is for them personally.
Ask to see bonus checks. Ask to see their 1099s.
This is the dumbest idea, see the above statement. When you go to college, do you ask to see the 1099s of your professors, or the checks they receive in the particular field you are studying? When you get job, do you ask to see the 1099s of coworkers or your boss? Give me a break!
Money talks. BS walks.
Compassion, ambition, vision, personal responsibility, experience and other people's experiences talk and it is what makes money. Nothing else.
It is only through labor and painful effort, by grim energy and resolute courage, that we move on to better things. --Roosevelt